POLL RESULTS for 1st RELAXER
When I first started this blog last year, I used to hold polls.The pie chart below is a breakdown of the responses to the question:
"What Age Did You First Relax Your Hair?"The poll shows that most women (45%) were aged between 11yrs - 16yrs when they first had their hair relaxed. This was followed 28% of women who were aged between 6yrs - 10yrs when their hair was first chemically straightened.
WOW!I was surprised as I think those ages are very young.
It got got me thinking why this was? I was 18yrs when I had my first relaxer. My aunt said I had "come of age" and took me to a brilliant hair dresser. I agreed cos I thought it'd be Fun. It looked good but I hated it. It just felt uncontrollable and too floppy to work with. However, over the next 7yrs I got so used to having straight hair I began to loose appreciation for my own hair. (tut tut)
|Getting my very first relaxer |
(Excuse the poor quality photos.
These were taken when cameras still used film)
Now, nearly a decade later, I'm back on track.
But I'm still curious about why so many Black women have their hair straighten so young?
Why Do So Many Black Women Get Relaxed So Young?
Feel free to let me know if you think Im right or wrong, but here are a few of the possibilities that came to mind...Self-Expression
I think it may have something to do with being in secondary school. Those important years when you begin to express yourself and take control of your own appearance.
During these years many girls long to be older and view straight hair as a sign of sophistication.Which leads to the question - why does straight hair equate to sophistication and beauty in the eyes of young girls? I think this is due to the following reason...
Celebrities & Society
EaseAnd of course, there's the isssue of managability. Without knowing how to really take care of natural hair, many people tend to think it'll be easier to straighten it. Having said that, I think parents have a large part to play too, as a high percentage of women first had their hair relaxed between the ages of 6-10yrs. At those ages it's not impossible to conclude that the decision to relax was made by a parent.
Again I think manageability is probably the main reason for this.What Do You Think?
(If you wana go back and read the original post you can check it out >here<.)